Is Oral Sex Becoming the Preferred Affair Act?

August 11, 2010 · Posted in Discreet Partner · Comment 

When it comes to cheating and affairs, we all know that men usually aren’t sexually satisfied in the relationship they are in. However over the past decade, as more and more men are working longer hours, it’s the women in these relationships that are no longer sexually satisfied in their relationship. You can see why TV shows around Desperate Housewives are so popular with married women; the underlying truth to the show speaks to these women.

AshleyMadison.com, a site that is dedicated to the discreet dating world, sees this first hand.  What’s fascinating about the site is their underground world.  While there are various forms of physical and emotional affairs, I wanted to focus on the physical for the moment.

For any partner that is looking to cheat, the number one concern is getting an STD (this actually ranks higher than getting caught, selfish selfish selfish! While a condom eliminates most of the risk, there is one STD that you are still at risk for with a condom – Genital Warts (HPV). HPV is rampant throughout the world. The reason for this is simple, even with a condom you can get warts.  Now, try going home and these hiding these warts from your partner. It’s virtually impossible.

As a result, you are seeing this resurgence in my personal favorite – oral sex. These meetings from AshleyMadison first start online with IM and email communication. You then reach a point where you meet at a semi private place. Since you’re both on the same page, you are creating a rather unique setting.  As you are both sexually and emotionally frustrated, the connection in a private setting dramatically increases the potential of a sexual encounter.

To further this point, both the man and the women in this situation WANT to perform oral. Such a shift to the way things were right? You are even seeing women perform BJs with a condom on. Here you thought this was for escorts only right fellas? As I mentioned earlier, the number one fear is getting an STD. By performing oral with a condom you are as safe as you can be with your pants down!

Now, this is no ashleymadison scam let me tell you, it’s simply human nature. Sometimes you need the emotional as well as the physical in a cheating / affair situation.  As you can imagine, finding a discreet partner doesn’t always happen. This is why Ashley came out with an affair guarantee. For $249 (not cheap, but cheaper and less risk than an escort), you are guaranteed an affair or your money back. This is the only package they provide you a guaranteed affair. So yea, what do you have to lose at this point right? If interested, read more about the affair program here.